Are you polyamorous? Or….

Do you suffer from low self esteem and can’t believe anyone will want to date you monogamously, since surely they will want to get some of their needs met elsewhere?

Or are you just desperate for validation and ego stroking from multiple people?

Or are you just afraid to commit fully and think that by having multiple relationships, you won’t be challenged to do so?

Or do you just want to enjoy lots of commitment free sex by taking advantage of actually polyamorous people?

Or are you just a pathological people-pleaser who went along with your partner’s desire for non monogamy?

Or do you just like hanging out with a group of open minded non judgemental neuro-spicy queer folks who readily accept you as you are?

It’s always good to inquire honestly what are your motivations for any type of relating, and sometimes it can be both an adaptation and orientation. The exploration is what gives you deeper insights into yourself.

If you aren’t sure, coaching or therapy with a qualified and experienced practitioner can help.