Video 1: What is Relationship Anarchy—And Could It Transform Your Love Life?
In this episode of Polyamorous Evolutions, relationship coach Roy Graff joins intimacy expert Susan Bratton for a candid, mind-expanding conversation on Relationship Anarchy—what it really means, how it differs from other non-monogamous frameworks, and why it might just be the freedom your relationships need. Roy breaks down the misconceptions, core values, and real-world challenges of navigating love outside the traditional rulebook—offering you clarity, compassion, and a whole lot of “aha” moments.
What You’ll Learn:
- The real definition of Relationship Anarchy (it’s not chaos!)
- Why autonomy and consent matter more than rules
- How to rethink relationship hierarchies
- Navigating jealousy and emotional safety without ownership
- The difference between loving freely vs. loving irresponsibly
- How to create intentional and fluid connections.
Video 2: Money and Culture in Non-Traditional Relationships
Looking for honest insights about the financial and social challenges of polyamory? Join relationship experts Susan Bratton and Roy Graff as they dive into the often-overlooked practical aspects of non-monogamous relationships in this eye-opening episode of the Polyamorous Evolutions series. In this candid conversation, Susan and Roy explore how alternative relationship structures navigate financial arrangements, social stigma, parenting concerns, and community building in today’s challenging economic landscape.
Key Takeaways:
- Non-monogamous relationships often face challenges from social stigma and misunderstanding
- Financial arrangements require thoughtful planning and clear agreements
- Children raised in polyamorous homes often benefit from multiple adult role models
- Community living can provide both economic and social benefits
- Polyamory can promote a greater sense of vitality and creativity in life.
Video 3: Empathy, Consent & Safe Sex: The Foundations of Poly Pleasure
What makes polyamorous pleasure truly sustainable? In this eye-opening episode of Polyamorous Evolutions, Susan Bratton and Roy Graff dive deep into the three essential pillars for joyful, ethical, and drama-free non-monogamy: Empathy, Consent, and Safe Sex Practices. This conversation is a must-watch for anyone navigating multiple relationships, exploring CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy), or simply wanting to level up their intimacy skills.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why empathy is your superpower in multi-partner dynamics
- The evolving understanding of consent in poly communities
- Why safe sex practices still lag behind—and how to fix that
- How to confidently have the “safe sex talk”
- Access to a free STI testing guide tailored for poly lifestyles
- How testing regularly builds trust and protects your “molecule”
Video 4: Unlearning Monogamy: Breaking Free from the Default
What if everything you were taught about love, relationships, and commitment was based on someone else’s rules—not your own? In this powerful episode of Polyamorous Evolutions, Roy Graff and Susan Bratton dig deep into the unspoken programming behind monogamy and how to break free from it. From childhood fairy tales to social expectations, monogamy is often served as the “default.” But what happens when we start questioning that narrative? Roy shares his lived experience and therapeutic insights to help you navigate the sometimes messy, always meaningful journey into non-monogamy.
Key Takeaways:
- Society conditions us to see monogamy as the only valid relationship model.
- Transitioning to non-monogamy requires deprogramming deeply rooted beliefs.
- Jealousy, security, and love can all be reframed in expansive, healthier ways.
- Unlearning is a process—mistakes, slow progress, and support are all part of it.
- Non-monogamy opens up a spectrum of connection beyond the “default couple.”
Video 5: Bridging Generations in Polyamory: Wisdom, Support & Evolution
What happens when the trailblazers of non-monogamy meet the fearless next-gen lovers? In this heartfelt and insightful finale of Polyamorous Evolutions, Roy Graff and Susan Bratton explore the powerful dynamic between “the Youngs and the Olds”—younger polyamorous folks blazing new trails, and elders offering deep support, wisdom, and grounded presence. Whether you’re new to polyamory, seasoned in non-monogamy, or somewhere in between, this episode celebrates community, intergenerational connection, and the beauty of continuous relationship evolution.
Key Takeaways:
- The evolving role of elders in polyamorous communities and how they create safer, welcoming spaces.
- How younger generations are redefining love, identity, and intimacy—free of shame or traditional stigma.
- Why intergenerational support mirrors ancient village models, fostering deeper connection and collective growth.
- The importance of visibility, mentorship, and organizing community spaces—no matter your age or experience level.
- You’re not alone—online and real-world poly communities are growing, and they want you there.
Video 6: Can gender roles exist in fluid, non-monogamous relationships?
In this enlightening episode of Polyamorous Evolutions, Roy Graff and Susan Bratton explore the intersection of gender, power, and emotional responsibility in polyamory and open relating. If you’ve ever questioned how masculine/feminine dynamics show up in poly relationships—or wondered how to maintain authentic connection while navigating multiple partners—this one’s for you.
What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
- Roy and Susan unpack: How gender roles are expressed and challenged in non-traditional relationship structures
- The importance of self-awareness and emotional safety when exploring open relating Why “emotional labor” in polyamory often skews toward the feminine, and how to address it
- Practical strategies to show up more consciously—no matter your gender identity
Key Takeaways:
- Gender roles don’t disappear in non-monogamy—they evolve.
- Masculine energy is about presence, not control.
- Feminine energy often brings emotional depth—but both partners must do the work.
- Conscious relating means co-creating safety and honoring individual needs.
- Non-monogamy requires maturity, clarity, and authentic communication.
