London Polyamory Monthly Social


A monthly social for the London Polyamory community

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  • Please remember to checkout to complete your booking.
  • Each person attending must be registered under their name.
  • Browse the calendar for the next event dates.
  • Select the date, then your ticket type and click ‘book now
  • You can book for multiple people by clicking ‘book now‘ and then on ‘continue booking‘ to make another booking.
  • If the date you want is greyed out, it means the event is full – scroll to the bottom to add your name to the waitlist.
  • Please pay £10 to secure your place, which includes a small donation to support the admin costs of running the event.
  • You can pay it forward by covering the ticket for another person who cannot afford it.
  • You can also just turn up without booking and pay on the door, if there is space.
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Please Pick a Date


Alternative and non-traditional relationships, non-monogamy, polyamory

This is your monthly get-together for the London polyamory community.

  • 6:30-7:30 for a short talk about the community, speed friending games and a Q&A for those who are new.

  • 6:30 – 10:00 social
  • From 10pm, the venue is open to walk-in customers.

This is a sober event. You can bring your own food in, and the entrance fee includes unlimited tea (wide variety), coffee, water, biscuits and cookies.

Dates and time for 2024 (subject to change):

July 3 6:30-10 pm

August 7, 6:30-10 pm

September 4,6:30-10 pm

October 2, 6:30-10 pm

November 6, 6:30-10 pm

December 4,6:30-10 pm


The Night Cafe, 56 Middlesex St, London E1 7EZ


  • Advance booking: £10 for entrance with unlimited hot drinks and cookies (includes £3 for card processing and admin costs). Guaranteed place from 6:30-8 and priority entrance to the connection games.
  • Pay on arrival: £7 or £10 with donation, no need to book but you are not guaranteed a place if we are full.

Terms and Conditions

  • If you RSVP and cannot make it, please cancel by replying to the email confirmation, at least 24 hours before
  • Spaces are limited to 36 people.
  • This is a community social, not a dating or hookup space. Anyone who makes others uncomfortable will be asked to leave and won’t be welcomed at future community events.
  • Please avoid behaviour that could cause discomfort or alarm, such as:
    • Cruising
    • Directly asking for people’s number or socials.
    • Making sexual remarks to people you don’t know are open to that.
    • Assuming people’s pronouns, genders or sexualities
    • Touching anyone without explicit verbal consent.
    • Expressing any kind of bigotry, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, body-shaming.
  • If you have any uncomfortable or weird experience at the event, please speak immediately to one of the volunteers who will be identified by a reflective armband.
  • We tend to have a high number of neurospicy people at our events. Some people may feel socially overwhelmed or overstimulated by sounds and lights. Please be considerate and understanding if someone needs to leave a conversation or move to a quieter part of the space mid-conversation, and please ask for what you need if you become overwhelmed.
  • This is a community event run by volunteers. The ticket price includes a small donation to cover our ongoing costs, and you can pay it forward by offering a ticket to someone who is unable to afford it.
  • If you would like to request a free (pay it forward) ticket, please contact to request. If someone has donated this, you will receive a link to reserve the ticket.

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