What would an abundance mindset look like?
For me, the shift towards an abundance mindset came about through discovering non-monogamy and polyamory. Suddenly, it was no longer necessary to find that one person that can be my everything. I did not have the pressure to be their everything. By having a more relaxed attitude towards dating, I have found out that when I am in a relationship, it is easier to meet more people that want to date me.
This mindset is possible to learn, practice and implement with the right support and direction. It starts with UNLEARNING our toxic cultural norms and using our ABSTRACT minds to create a new reality. My journey was greatly helped by attending Burning Man events where people freely give their time, energy, food and other resources in order to collaborate, cooperate and build something that is greater than the individual.
Once we discover that we are capable of self-love, self-confidence and self-regulation, we begin to meet more of our needs by ourselves. This kind of work often involves a journey of self-discovery and can be greatly helped with therapy or coaching, as well as group work.