Advice to monogamous couples

I asked ChatGPT4 to list 10 tips for monogamous couples, based on the content of my Twitter feed @openrelating.

Here is what it came up with, I don’t hate it but it’s also just basic common sense advice for all relationships and really shows how monoamorous and polyamorous people’s healthy relationships are not that different.

• Monogamy doesn’t mean you can’t have friends of the opposite sex, but it’s important to establish boundaries and communicate with your partner to ensure your relationship stays strong.

• One of the keys to a healthy and successful monogamous relationship is open communication. Don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings, needs, and desires with your partner.

• It’s normal to have disagreements and conflicts in any relationship, but learning how to resolve them in a respectful and loving way is essential for the longevity of your monogamous partnership.

• Don’t forget to prioritize your relationship and make time for each other, even when life gets busy. Regular date nights and quality time can help keep the spark alive.

• Honesty and trust are crucial in any monogamous relationship. Don’t keep secrets from your partner and be truthful, even if it’s difficult.

• Remember that your partner is not responsible for your happiness, but they can certainly contribute to it. Take responsibility for your own well-being and work together to create a fulfilling life together.

• Respecting each other’s boundaries is key to a healthy monogamous relationship. Discuss what each of you are comfortable with and make sure to honor those limits.

• Don’t compare your relationship to others or put pressure on yourselves to fit into society’s expectations. Every couple is unique and what works for you may not work for others.

• Forgiveness is an important part of any monogamous relationship. Don’t hold grudges and learn to let go of past hurts to move forward together.

• Finally, never stop learning and growing together as a couple. Whether it’s trying new things, taking on challenges, or learning new skills, the journey of a monogamous relationship is one of constant discovery and growth.