Description
In a partnered coaching / counselling session, I can offer guidance, support, motivation, practical advice and insights.
The first session is all about context: Understanding your needs and expectations, learning your background and offering insights and reflections.
In some cases, a single session or double session, to help clarify thoughts and process challenges, is all that is needed. In other cases, we will structure a plan that sets goals and objectives to where you’d like to be in the end. This may take between 4-8 sessions.
We will tackle relationship dynamics, intimacy, communication, conflict management and resolution, how to deal with jealousy, healthy boundaries and personal fulfilment. Whether you are in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship, I offer a judgment-free, empathetic space for you to share and process. The process requires commitment to honesty, openness and vulnerability.
My approach is inclusive of all genders, identities, kinks and is sex-positive and non-judgemental. I look for what works best for my clients.
Once booked, please look for an email confirmation from Open Relating with a link to the online meeting.
Remember to check your SPAM box in case the confirmation email accidentally ends up there (emails will come from @openrelating.love or @roygraff.com).
- For 2 people only – you have the option to check the box for a package of 5 or 10 sessions.
- The package applies a discount immediately, along with booking your first appointment.
- 5 session package: £165 per session, valid for 6 months
- 10 session package: £155 per session, valid for 12 months
Terms and Conditions
- Cancellations/alterations can be made 48 hours in advance for no charge.
- You will need to email me to change or cancel.
- 24-48 hours: 50% charge (no charge if changing to another date in the same week)
- less than 24 hours: full charge
Pavla and Marvin –
We asked Roy to work with us on communication in our relationship. Roy brought very interesting questions for us to answer to each other and new perspectives on the topics we were dealing with. Coming from the Radical Honesty background, we have quite a specific way of expressing our emotions and needs, and we feel Roy was very understanding and sensitive towards our special relationship dynamic as well as to both of us as individuals. We are grateful for the sessions we’ve had with him and we are looking forward to the future ones!
Pavla & Marvin
J. –
I really appreciated your advice and I imagine wanting to reach out again depending upon how we think about moving forward. Ultimately, I needed some time to process the loss of some version of a relationship that I had been expecting and look forward to a future that isn’t focusing my energy on how I see myself through my partner’s eyes.
Anna –
The work I did with Roy has been immensely valuable and transformative. I came for coaching sessions with my partner as we were opening our relationship and believe the support and guidance we received saved us from a lot of problems. My main concern was that my partner would agree to a new way of relating without fully taking in what that meant and taking responsibility for their own experience, that in the future there might be resentment. Navigating this transition with Roy’s insight, kindness and immense knowledge enabled us to meet each other safely with respect, curiosity and deeper communication – it strengthened our connection. Our relationship thrived during this period and continues to do so two years on into polyamory.