Creating Expansive Relationships – group course (date pending)

(6 customer reviews)


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Create and maintain Expansive Relationships, respecting yours and your partners’ boundaries and embracing a mindset of abundance in your connections.

This course is for anyone who wants to build healthy, meaningful relationships, regardless of gender, orientation, sexual identity etc.

After all, the basic principles of good communication, healthy boundaries, honesty and respect apply to all.

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  • There are limited places available at a lower rate, please contact me if you would like to apply.
  • You will receive an email to confirm your place with details of the course dates and zoom link.
  • Payment can be made online with a credit/debit card, or via bank transfer (UK bank).
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  • By completing the order, you also accept the terms and conditions listed below.


Being raised on a diet of monogamous romantic fantasies, most people develop a mythological sense of what healthy relationships look like.

Once we recognise love as separate from ‘meeting needs’, we are on our path to a better way of loving ourselves and others.

We can design our relationships in any way that makes sense to us and our partners – we can create our own Expansive Relationship

If what society says we should be doing feels unnatural, then do it differently. Nothing is ‘default’ or ‘natural’, except what feels natural to us. 

When there is an internal struggle, it is often because we inherit a set of values and expectations from our community, family and tribe that are at odds with what we feel inside.

Every week there will be a further drop-in hour to discuss the topics and answer questions, as well as thought exercises to do at home.

  • Week 1. Unpacking and unlearning mono-normative myths and challenging our core beliefs. What is possible? 
  • Week 2. The importance of embodied consent and healthy boundaries in my relationship to myself and others.
  • Week 3. Processing, managing and healing strong emotions that stop me from fulfilling my relationship goals.
  • Week 4. Starting on the path to an abundance mindset. 

Benefits of the course include

  1. Four core workshops (8 hours total), recorded and available to watch again.
  2. Weekly practices at home and drop-in sessions for group practice. 
  3. Handout at end of the course with resources for additional practice via articles, videos, podcasts and books
  4. Private chat group on Signal for ongoing support and advice
  5. Free access to all audio and video content on 
  6. 15% discount on counselling or coaching sessions with Roy for 12 months.

Terms & Conditions

  • Places are confirmed either with a deposit or full payment.
  • Paying in installments can be discussed if this will help you financially.
  • Full refund if cancelled up to 2 week prior to course start date.
  • 20% admin fee, if cancelled between 2 weeks and 1 day before. 
  • 50% cancellation fee if cancelled less than 24 hours before.

6 reviews for Creating Expansive Relationships – group course (date pending)

  1. Iona

    It has been quite a journey! It has brought a level of acceptance in myself and others. And it has kickstarted a curiosity to understand relationships even more as good ones make for a fulfilling life! There are so many resources that I have been introduced to – a great overview of the best relationship / relating models out there, which I am keen to research even more now. It has helped me break down what love, sex and attachment is by examining it rather than being caught up in the throws of it. Also I have learnt so much about my own needs and wants that I feel I have more tools to be taken into my monogamous relationships. Still figuring out where my boundaries are, but had a great private session with Roy to try to put them in place, felt supported throughout by him.

  2. Anon

    (I have found the most value in) working with sub personalities and boundaries. The deep and clear instructions for meeting with the unconscious personalities was spot on.

  3. Milena

    This course was definitely and eye opener for me. It was exactly what I needed and it came to me at the right time. I am now more aware of how I relate to others, my subpersonalities, love language, attachment style and conflict resolution. I feel like the fog has been lifted and the way is clear. I feel more lovable and worthy of love. I no longer feel stuck. I know this is just the beginning but it is a solid foundation to keep growing and become a better partner in any type of relationship. Thank you so much Roy, I am really grateful and feel lucky to have taken part of the course.

  4. Sarah

    Recently took part in the 5 week open relating course and found it Interesting and beneficial. I met some lovely people whose experiences inspired me and gave me a whole new perspective of myself and how I view my relationships. This course is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and their own thoughts and behaviours when it comes to relationships, and not just the romantic kind.

    Roy is easy to talk to, non judgemental and encourages you to be your most authentic self. I was unsure if this was for me so I booked the free introduction call, where Roy answered all my questions and offered support and I knew straight away that I wanted to explore what this course had to offer. I wasn’t disappointed!

  5. Karima

    I was a little apprehensive about this course to start but I needn’t have been.
    Roy has structured this course really well, we got through a lot of super useful info without feeling overwhelmed.
    I’ve taken some of the insights and used them to improve my communication with my partners already.
    This course can work for anyone in any relationship dynamic!

  6. Erisa

    I discovered Roy in 2021 and I had a couple of private sessions, with him, to help me with some problems in my then relationship. I found him to be an excellent listener with accurate observations and an integral approach. I have been following him since and his consistent delivery of meaningful content has built my trust for him as a therapist. So, I did the course ”from scarcity to abundance” and for the first time in my life I could see that abundance is a mindset that you can choose to have after lifting all the veils of illusion that society has placed tightly over our awareness. The group was small, made up with people with a refreshing desire for self inquiry. The sessions were filled with enough information to allow time for reflection. Also, Roy , was an excellent host of the sessions as to timekeeping, giving everyone the chance to be involved and creating a satisfying flow. The follow up emails, full of resources to take the understanding deeper. I always thought, abundance was about luxury and manic situations, somewhere that I could reach, under some non clear conditions. Roy in his course, shows you, that abundance and choice is always there for you to pick-the gift of showing up as a whole, authentic being with the bravery to think for your self and ask the right questions. Thanks Roy. I recommend this course. The best money I have ever spent. Great value.

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