REALationships – from Scarcity to Abundance (Starts 6 February 2022)

(5 customer reviews)


Next group meets on 6 February, 2022 and weekly until 27th at 6PM British time

Create and maintain conscious, connected and autonomous relationships, respecting yours and your partners’ boundaries and embracing a mindset of abundance in your connections.

This course is for anyone who wants to build healthy, meaningful relationships, regardless of gender, orientation, sexual identity etc. After all, the basic principles of good communication, healthy boundaries, honesty and respect apply to all.

  • Scroll down to learn more about the course
  • There are limited places available at a lower rate, please select if this is right for you
  • You will receive an email to confirm your place, and a voucher with details of the course dates and zoom link
  • Payment can be made online with a card, or via bank transfer (UK bank)
  • If you do not receive a response within 2 days, please check your spam folder or email me to check
  • By completing the order, you also accept the terms and conditions listed below
SKU: N/A Categories: ,


Being raised on a diet of monogamous romantic fantasies, most people develop a mythological sense of what healthy relationships look like. Once we recognise love as separate from ‘meeting needs’, we are on our path to a better way of loving ourselves and others. We can design our relationships in any way that makes sense to us and our partners.

If what society says we should be doing feels unnatural, then do it differently. Nothing is ‘default’ or ‘natural’, except what feels natural to us. When there is an internal struggle, it is often because we inherit a set of values and expectations from our community, family and tribe that are at odds with what we feel inside.

The course consists of 4 workshops, 2 hours each, held weekly via Zoom.

Each group will have no more than 8 people to ensure an intimate and supportive space.

Every week there will be a further drop-in hour to discuss the topics and answer questions, as well as thought exercises to do at home.

  • Week 1. What are the monogamyths that help create our scarcity mindset? How can we unlearn them? 
  • Week 2. How I relate to myself and to others. My values and boundaries, love languages and connection style.
  • Week 3. Dealing with jealousy, expressing authentically and arguing compassionately. 
  • Week 4. The abundance mindset: challenging relationship heterodoxy and discovering the myriad ways for connection and relationships. 

Benefits of the course include

  1. Four core workshops (8 hours total)
  2. Handout at end of the course with resources for additional practice via articles, videos, podcasts and books
  3. Recording of all workshops
  4. Private chat group on Signal for ongoing support and advice
  5. Presentation content of all workshops as a PDF
  6. 25% discount on counselling or coaching sessions with Roy for 12 months


  • Places are confirmed with a deposit or full payment.
  • Paying in installments can be discussed.
  • Full refund if cancelled up to 72 hours prior to start.
  • 15% admin fee, if cancelled less than 25-72 hours prior.
  • 25% admin fee if cancelled 24 hours prior.

5 reviews for REALationships – from Scarcity to Abundance (Starts 6 February 2022)

  1. Iona

    It has been quite a journey! It has brought a level of acceptance in myself and others. And it has kickstarted a curiosity to understand relationships even more as good ones make for a fulfilling life! There are so many resources that I have been introduced to – a great overview of the best relationship / relating models out there, which I am keen to research even more now. It has helped me break down what love, sex and attachment is by examining it rather than being caught up in the throws of it. Also I have learnt so much about my own needs and wants that I feel I have more tools to be taken into my monogamous relationships. Still figuring out where my boundaries are, but had a great private session with Roy to try to put them in place, felt supported throughout by him.

  2. Anon

    (I have found the most value in) working with sub personalities and boundaries. The deep and clear instructions for meeting with the unconscious personalities was spot on.

  3. Milena

    This course was definitely and eye opener for me. It was exactly what I needed and it came to me at the right time. I am now more aware of how I relate to others, my subpersonalities, love language, attachment style and conflict resolution. I feel like the fog has been lifted and the way is clear. I feel more lovable and worthy of love. I no longer feel stuck. I know this is just the beginning but it is a solid foundation to keep growing and become a better partner in any type of relationship. Thank you so much Roy, I am really grateful and feel lucky to have taken part of the course.

  4. Sarah

    Recently took part in the 5 week open relating course and found it Interesting and beneficial. I met some lovely people whose experiences inspired me and gave me a whole new perspective of myself and how I view my relationships. This course is for anyone who wants to better understand themselves and their own thoughts and behaviours when it comes to relationships, and not just the romantic kind.

    Roy is easy to talk to, non judgemental and encourages you to be your most authentic self. I was unsure if this was for me so I booked the free introduction call, where Roy answered all my questions and offered support and I knew straight away that I wanted to explore what this course had to offer. I wasn’t disappointed!

  5. Karima

    I was a little apprehensive about this course to start but I needn’t have been.
    Roy has structured this course really well, we got through a lot of super useful info without feeling overwhelmed.
    I’ve taken some of the insights and used them to improve my communication with my partners already.
    This course can work for anyone in any relationship dynamic!

Add a review

Your email address will not be published.